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The Dragonfly Centre is committed to the elimination of domestic violence against women and their children by providing victim friendly services that promotes the empowerment of survivors; through advocacy, public awareness and education and community based initiatives.

Vision: The Dragonfly Centre envisions a world free of violence against women and their children and social justice for all. We are founded on the vision and belief that every person has the right to live in a safe environment free from violence and the fear of violence and strive to work collaboratively with the community to provide victim friendly services to support domestic violence victims, survivors to the stage of thriving.

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Monday, July 30, 2012

Woman injured in fire set by relative

Woman injured in fire set by relative
By LAUREL V WILLIAMS Sunday, July 29 2012
Point Fortin police are searching for a 29 year-old man who yesterday burnt down a house following a domestic dispute with a female relative.
The woman, Camille Gittens, 27, also sustained burns to her left leg in the fire. She was subsequently treated and discharged from the Point Fortin Area Hospital yesterday afternoon. A police report stated Gittens, a mother of three, and the man had an argument, following which he set the house, located at Warden Road Extension, Point Fortin, on fire at about 9.30 am. The man fled the scene and neighbours had to assist in getting Gittens out the burning house.

The woman’s children, police said, are currently on vacation at the home of relatives out of the area.

The injured mother was rushed to hospital and when fire officers arrived at the scene the house was already completely gutted. Police estimated losses to be in excess of $100,000. Up to late yesterday, PC Carter and other officers from the Point Fortin Police Station were searching for the suspect, whom they believe had gone into hiding. Once arrested, police are expected to lay several charges against him. PC Carter is investigating.

Source: http://www.newsday.co.tt/crime_and_court/0,164037.html

Sunday, July 22, 2012

Victims and Witness Support Unit head: Our children are in crisis

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Published: Sunday, July 22, 2012
Rhonda Krystal Rambally

The number of reports to the Victim and Witness Support Unit of the T&T Police Service has already reached 841 for this year. Of that number, 300 of the victims from the Central Division made reports of domestic violence, rape and child abuse. Retired assistant commissioner of police Margaret Sampson-Browne who manages the unit said this yesterday at a symposium titled Voices held at the Centre of Excellence, Macoya.
Head of the Victims and Witness Support Unit of the
Trinidad and Tobago Police Service, Margaret
Sampson-Browne, explains the data on abuse in
Trinidad at the Voices workshop on domestic violence
and child abuse held at the Centre of Excellence,
 Macoya,  yesterday. PHOTO: NICOLE DRAYTON

Saturday, July 21, 2012

Surviving Domestic Violence - The Carolyn Thomas Story


Surviving Domestic Violence - The Carolyn Thomas Story

By Sue-Ann Wayow


OUTRAGED by the horror stories of domestic violence, author and social activist Carol Maharaj has been compelled to do what she can, to help abuse victims.

Maharaj will be hosting a symposium on July 21 entitled " Voices" at the Centre of Excellence in Macoya. She said the purpose of the symposium is to strengthen individuals who have been the victims of domestic violence and other forms of abuse as well as to motivate others to overcome daily life obstacles.

She said, " This event is designed to empower individuals to take action immediately, to seek help, to make a decision to be the victor and not to the victim." Last year August, Maharaj unveiled a mural in San Fernando to act as a memorial for missing persons.

The feature speaker for "Voices" will be Carolyn Thomas, a former victim of abuse. Her story is published on her website www.carolyn-thomas.org. She is the founder of The Carolyn Thomas Foundation and now spends her time encouraging other victims to become overcomers and survivors of domestic abuse.

This is Thomas's story.
"I was born in Midland, Texas, on July 26, 1970. Raised by my grandmother and mother. I grew up in a strong, faith environment and attended church on a regular basis. During high school I participated and excelled in track and drama.

I grew up carefree and enjoyed spending time with my friends and mom. After graduation from Midland High School, I moved to Waco, Texas. I attended a local community college.
I later decided to explore the workforce in Waco and worked various jobs. In 1995, I met the man who would change my life forever. Throughout our eight year relationship, I was caged from the outside world. I experienced helplessness, powerlessness, isolation, control, manipulations, fear, intimidation, and loss of self by an abusive partner on various levels. The abusive relationship progressed to a lethal plateau over time.

On December 5, 2003, I suffered catastrophic facial injuries when my abuser shot me at point-blank range. I was not expected to live. By God's hand I survived. I had 11 reconstructive surgeries at Methodist Hospital in Houston, Texas over a two year period. While recovering I discovered my purpose, to tell my story to all willing to listen." Thomas's mother was shot and killed by the same person who attacked her.

Maharaj said other speakers for the event include Margaret Sampson-Browne, manager of the Victims and Witness Support Unit of the Police Service and Fizool Haniss, a retired acting superintendent of prisons.

She said Haniss who was assigned to the Youth Training Centre for most of his career, will be speaking about the effects of abuse on children.

Maharaj said " I know that there are other agencies that deal with domestic abuse but we juts wanted to do our little part.Carolyn's face is disfigured but that does not stop her from doing what she does. It is the face of a victim and a victor. Her face tells a story. We want women to be able to get over the trauma of domestic abuse. We want to show women that they can be a conqueror. There are so many others, who cry and die in silence."

Maharaj is the managing director of Care One Consultants Services.
Tickets for the symposium cost $300 and can be bought at any Francis Fashions Shoelocker outlet.

Source: http://www.trinidadexpress.com/featured-news/Surviving-Domestic-Violence-162204345.html

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Monday, July 16, 2012

Husband, 73, on murder charge

 







 Husband, 73, on murder charge 

FIT FOR TRIAL: Ralph Sahibram

Magistrate rules he’s fit for trial

SEVENTY-THREE-year-old Ralph Sahibram appeared in the Point Fortin Magistrates' Court yesterday charged with beating his wife to death with a wrench.
Sahibram, of Grants Road, Rousillac, allegedly killed his wife, Myrna Sahibram, while she slept on a living room couch at the family’s home last week Monday.
Sahibram, 73, dressed in a black long-sleeved shirt and black trousers, appeared before Senior Magistrate Indrani Cedeno, shortly before lunch.
He shouted, “Good morning everybody” as be entered the court, and was silenced by Court and Process officers who led him to a seat.
Sahibram was charged by Police Constable Darryl Blackman and was represented by attorneys Natalia Cummings and Herbert Charles.
His relatives were outside the court during the hearing of the matter.
Cummings told magistrate Cedeno that she wanted a short adjournment date.
“We want to know what is the mental health of our client,” Cummings said.
Cedeno asked, “Does your client have a history of mental illness? Let me clear it up. What is your name sir? How old are you? Do you know where you are?”
When Sahibram answered all three questions, Cedeno ruled that the accused was fully aware and has a good level of intelligence.”
Sahibram, a retired school bus driver, was remanded in prison custody and the matter was adjourned to July 23. 
 
Source: http://www.trinidadexpress.com/news/Husband-73-on-murder-charge-162673906.html

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Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Pensioner beaten to death by Grandson — wrench seized

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KILLED: Pensioner and mother of four Myrna Sahibram, who was beaten to death with a wrench by a male relative on Monday at her Rousillac home.
Myrna Sahibram

 


Killer tried to wake her up
Wednesday, July 11 2012.
THE grandson of pensioner Myrna Sahibram, 68, — the elder woman who was beaten to death with a wrench — yesterday told Newsday that after killing the woman at her Grant’s Trace, Rousillac home Monday afternoon, the killer called family members and said he was trying to wake-up Sahibram.
On Monday afternoon, La Brea police responded to a report that a man had struck a woman with a wrench on her head. They arrived to find the deceased covered in blood lying on a couch. Nearby, the mother of four lay dead on a couch in the house where she lived with her husband Ralph Sahibram, 73.

The woman’s grandson Leon Gayah Persad, 25, expressed shock when he heard of the incident, saying that his relative who has been held for killing Sahibram, never showed any violent tendency. The detained relative is a retired PTSC bus driver.

“Since I was small I never saw him act violently. He was always peaceful and really is a soft hearted person,” Persad said.

“Apparently, shortly after he struck my grandmother, he telephoned my mother (Sahibram’s daughter) and told her that Myrna not getting-up. The man told my mother that after he hit granny, she fell and when he tried to wake her up, she ignored him,” Persad said.

Another daughter of the victim Lystra Lall (Persad’s aunt) went to drop off groceries on Monday afternoon, not aware of her mother’s death, and walked into the house to see her mother dead on the couch and a male relative covered in the elderly woman’s blood walking aimlessly in the yard. Lall dropped the bag of groceries, jumped in her car and sped off.

La Brea police were called in. A blood-stained wrench was seized and the man taken away.

Police sources said that the suspect who remains in police custody, was up to yesterday still unaware that Sahibram was dead. Sources said he appeared confused.

An autopsy confirmed that death was due to blunt force trauma to the head. The autopsy was done at the Forensic Science Centre in St James. No charge has been made and investigations are continuing.

Source:  http://newsday.co.tt/crime_and_court/0,163095.html

Pensioner beaten to death — wrench seized
Tuesday, July 10 2012
THE brutal murder of an elderly woman at the hands of a male relative yesterday has sent shock waves throughout the quiet community of Grants Trace in Rousillac.
As news of the brutal murder spread like wildfire, scores of villagers left their homes and rushed over to the home of Mona Sahibram, 68, and her husband, 73-year-old Ralph Sahibram, a retired PTSC bus driver.

The daughters of the murdered woman wept as neighbours and relatives huddled in groups talking in hushed tones about the brutal killing. Nearby, police and crime scene investigators went through their paces.

Police reported that Mrs Sahibram, a mother of four, was found bludgeoned to death inside her home. Police said that shortly after 2 pm, the elderly woman was heard arguing with a male relative and a short while later, her screams were heard.

A bloodied wrench was discovered near Moha’s body. Her head had been bashed in. Neighbours told Newsday that shortly after the killing, the male relative was seen eating and walking around the house with Mona’s blood staining his clothes. Relatives later said the male relative appeared to be oblivious to what had happened.

The male relative was detained by police at about seven o’clock last night. The body of the elderly woman was removed to the Forensic Sciences Centre in St James where an autopsy will be conducted today. Southern Division Homicide are continuing investigations.

Source: http://www.newsday.co.tt/news/0,163044.html
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Special Reserve Police Officer Charged for Stabbing Wife

SRP to be charged for stabbing wife
Thursday, July 5 2012
Charges are expected to be laid against a 54-year-old special reserve police officer who is accused of wounding his wife.
According to police reports, the officer, who ingested a deadly herbicide last Saturday, is “now out of the woods”.

Investigating officers say they have liaised with medical personnel who have stated the officer’s condition has improved.

The officer and his wife were rushed to the Port-of-Spain General Hospital following a physical altercation.

Police sources say the officer, who has over 30 years service, remains warded under heavy police guard.

Reports state, the officer allegedly stabbed and planassed his wife.

The woman was stabbed on her stomach, arms and legs.

Police say the woman has already given a statement and is expected to be discharged tomorrow.

The couple resided at Fourth Street, Paradise Simeon Road, Petit Valley when, at about 11 pm, the officer and his wife started arguing. During the argument, the officer, who is based in the Western Division, reportedly expressed anger over the woman’s decision to attend a fete on Saturday. Reports claim the officer took a kitchen knife and stabbed his wife several times about the body. He then took a cutlass and began beating her with the flat side of it. The officer then ingested the herbicide. He then forced the bleeding woman into his car and drove to the St James Medical Infirmary where the couple were spotted by medical personnel and taken to the Port-of-Spain General Hospital.

Source: http://newsday.co.tt/crime_and_court/0,162787.html

Saturday, July 7, 2012

Woman Stabbed by Relative

Woman stabbed by relative
By CECILY ASSON Friday, July 6 2012
A FEMALE security guard remains warded in serious condition at San Fernando General Hospital (SFGH) after she was stabbed multiple times by a close male relative yesterday during a dispute at her San Fernando home.
The victim Tish Thorpe, 30, of Simpson Brown Terrace, Cocoyea Village, San Fernando.

The incident, police said, happened in the presence of two children between the age of three and five. Thorpe is a mother of four.

Police are now looking for a 34-year-old unemployed man who fled the scene after he stabbed Thorpe. According to a police report, at about 11 am yesterday, Thorpe visited the Mon Repos Police Station and told officers that her life was being threatened by a man she knew.

Sgt Roopnarine accompanied by PC Eastman visited the home and warned the relative. In the presence of the police officers, the man agreed to leave and packed two bags and together with the officers left the house.

However, an hour later, officers received a call that Thorpe had been stabbed. On arrival, she was found at a neighbour’s home bleeding from stab wounds to her head, hands and back. She was rushed to the SFGH where she was treated and warded.

Police believe the suspect who returned to the house, gained entry through a back window.

He also damaged several household items. PC Eastman is continuing investigations.

Source: http://www.newsday.co.tt/crime_and_court/0,162849.html

Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Cop, Wife Stable

Cop, wife stable
Tuesday, July 3 2012
A 54-YEAR-OLD Special Reserve Police officer (SRP) and his 45-year-old wife are now listed as resting in a satisfactory condition at Port-of-Spain General Hospital where they were taken on Saturday night following an incident in which the officer is alleged to have stabbed his wife before ingesting a poisonous substance.
Police said the officer who has over 30 years service and was brought back on contract to work as an SRP following his retirement, remains warded under police guard.

Medical staff have told investigators the officer is out of danger and is expected to survive the suicide attempt.

The officer, ingested the deadly herbicide “Swiper” on Saturday night, after he stabbed and planassed (beat with flat side of cutlass) his wife Hazel Toussaint-Chadband.

Toussaint-Chadband was stabbed on her stomach, arms and legs. Police say they will be approaching the Office of the Director of Public Prosecutions later this week to ascertain what charges could be laid.

The officer who is based in Western Division, lives with his wife at Fourth Street, Simeon Road, Petit Valley. The attempted murder/suicide is said to have taken place following a heated argument over Toussaint-Chadband’s decision to attend a fete against the policeman’s wishes.

After drinking the poison, the officer reportedly forced his bleeding, dazed wife into his car and drove to the St James Medical Infirmary where the couple was spotted by medical personnel and taken to the Port-of-Spain General Hospital. Investigations are continuing.

Source: http://www.newsday.co.tt/crime_and_court/0,162683.html

Monday, July 2, 2012

War on Women in Trinidad and Tobago

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War on women
By Andre Bagoo Sunday, July 1 2012
IN THE GARDEN of Eden, Adam blamed Eve for his fall from grace.
In a similar manner, the State appears to be waging a one-sided war against women and women only, when it comes to prosecuting cases of cruelty to children.

In the last two weeks alone, no less than four women have been hauled before the courts on various charges relating to the treatment of their children, according to reports in Newsday last week. A common factor in all of the cases was an absent father.

But while these charges and convictions have been hailed and welcomed by some, others ask: where are the men? Why have the men, who have fathered these children and – in some cases – abandoned them, not been held responsible? Should only women be held up for blame, in the way Eve alone was blamed for Adam’s wrong-doing?

“I want to know when the police are going to charge the fathers with neglect and abandonment,” said Diana Mahabir-Wyatt, who founded a shelter for women and children and served as an Independent Senator.

“None of those women in those cases had virgin births. If every one of those abandoned and neglected children has a male parent, it is logical to assume the male parent should bear equal responsibility under the law for the support and care of the children.”

She continued, “Until that happens, we will not have equality before the law. We will have what appears to be a war on women.”

On Monday, mother of four Kamla Ramcharan, 29, pleaded guilty to assault occasioning actual bodily harm.

She was sentenced to three years in jail for holding her eight-year-old daughter Vishala’s hand over a hot flat iron plate (tawah) used for cooking. Ramcharan told the magistrate she was trying to teach her daughter a lesson about the wrongs of stealing by placing her daughter’s soft hand on the hot tawah.

“I not sorry for what I do,” she told Magistrate Gillian David-Scotland.

“I sure she not going to steal again.”

The child had suffered third degree burns to her left hand, likely to leave lingering effects for the rest of her life. In the end, the Magistrate had a lesson for Ramcharan.

“It is a heinous way to punish your child,” the Chaguanas Magistrate said.

“The child may have been innocent. Children did not ask to come in this world. When the police asked you about the incident, you showed no remorse, instead you said ‘you not sorry’. You will serve three years in jail.”

On Tuesday, a 50-year-old mother of seven was sentenced to nine months for beating her daughter after the nine-year-old reported to her – via a cousin — that she had been raped in 2003 by a male relative. She was charged under Section 31 (1) of the Sexual Offences Act last year. San Fernando Magistrate Alicia Chankar told the woman, “A mother serves as protector and as parents, we have a duty to care for our children.”

As if by clockwork, on Wednesday, another woman appeared in court charged with mistreating her children. This time it was Janelle Peters, a mother of three, charged with abandoning her children, Joella, Joel and Jaden Alton, at their Longdenville, Chaguanas home on Tuesday night. The charge was “willful neglect/abandonment in a manner likely to cause unnecessary suffering or injury.” Peters was sent to jail pending bail and will be sentenced in August.

And then on Thursday, a woman pregnant with twins, Kezi Doughty, 33, was taken before Magistrate Chankar. The charge? Abandoning five of her nine children at King’s Wharf in San Fernando.

The cases have come amid persistent concerns over high levels of crime – expressed as recently as Friday by Minister of National Security Jack Warner. According to Superintendent Johnny Abraham, the State has been adopting a “zero tolerance” stance against crime and has been, lately, paying particular attention to dealing with any and all forms of abuse against children.

But the apparently unintended effect of this new effort has been to wage a war on women and not men, resulting in a manifestly unfair process, according to some.

All of the cases in the last few days involved absent fathers, some of whom have also clearly abandoned their children. While the mothers have been charged with neglect, none of the fathers have.

Warner, speaking with Sunday Newsday on Friday, argued one possible cause of the problem: the fathers cannot be found.

“They should be charged yes,” he said.

“But that is if they can be found.”

Yet, can the fathers be found? In the case of Peters and her three children left at King’s Wharf, the children said their father was at work at 10 o’clock at night. Lawyers said being at work is not a defence to the charge of neglect, though it may relate to sentencing.

In the case of pregnant Doughty, the Magistrate was driven to ask why the father of the five children who were abandoned was not also charged for abandonment.

As for the male relative who actually raped the girl who complained to her mother of rape, to her detriment, it is not clear if the man has been charged. It is also not clear if the girl’s father, too, was informed of what she reported and whether he, too, failed to report the case. The father seems to have not been in the picture, raising social – if not legal – questions.

The father in the case of the child whose hand was burnt on a tawah appears to be the exception. Though the girl missed school for a week, it was not teachers at the girl’s school who raised the alarm. It was her father. He reported the matter to the police. But after the woman was penalised last week, he seemed to harbour regrets over having done so. He told Newsday, “When I heard the news, I was lost for words because I never thought she would have been given such a stiff sentence. Although I resent what she did to our daughter, I have since forgiven her.”

A friend of the mother, who did not want to be named, said she often assisted the mother in caring for her children.

“This is harsh,” the friend said.

“That woman try hard but she is frustrated. Three years is too harsh for a mother. It have people doing worse than that and getting less jail.”

New law will apply to men and women

“I am not saying that the women are right,” Mahabir-Wyatt made clear.

“But it takes a village to raise a child. That is not just a saying. It takes both parents to make a child these days, not like in the old days when women had unilateral, miraculous, virgin births. Do you know how difficult it is to feed and clothe and raise a child?”

Mahabir-Wyatt agrees that if new legislation designed to protect children, passed in Parliament last month, is implemented, the law will make it clear that men, too, are responsible for children.

Section 4 of the Children’s Act entrenches the offence of cruelty to children, holding that an offence is made out, “Where a person has responsibility for a child and the person wilfully assaults, ill-treats, neglects, abandons or exposes the child or causes or procures the child to be assaulted, ill-treated, neglected, abandoned, or exposed in a manner likely to cause that child suffering or injury to his physical, mental or emotional health”.

The law, which was passed in June but is yet to be proclaimed, specifically mentions a hypothetical “he” who may seek to avoid responsibility by deserting a child.

The section which defines who has responsibility for a child reads, “Any person who is the parent or legal guardian of a child or who is legally liable to maintain a child is presumed to have responsibility for the child, and, any such person shall not be deemed to have ceased to have responsibility for the child by reason only that he has deserted, or otherwise does not reside with the child.”

“I am waiting to see those fathers being charged,” Mahabir-Wyatt said.

While she has concerns over the fairness of the enforcement of the current laws, Mahabir-Wyatt still thinks the cases send an important message. Even though many of the children involved in these cases will have to enter the foster care system, raising another set of ethical questions, the cases are important.

“I think what the cases are doing is pointing out that children need more than one parent,” she said.

The cases also act as a strong deterrent, discouraging parents from mistreating children through penalties.

“You see the kind of penalties the court is handing down now?” Warner noted on Friday.

“The court is handing down some strict penalties and I am very happy about that. Mothers must understand that they too are not above the law. And this is very good.” (He did not mention fathers.)

Yet others disagree that the penalties are as high as they could be.

Attorney General Anand Ramlogan, Warner’s colleague, last week told Newsday that the mothers in all the cases seem to have gotten away.

“They get away, as they were not charged under the Children’s Act,” the Attorney General said when asked to comment on the status of that legislation and the recent cases.

“It’s a good question. It crossed my mind. I would say the legislation that has been passed would have treated things in a different way because it has a wider range of options available. I agree with you.”

The Children’s Act was finally passed in the House of Representatives on June 15, five months after it was first tabled. The act has not yet come into force as it has to be proclaimed on a date to be determined by President George Maxwell Richards, upon the advice of Cabinet. Yet, Ramlogan could not say how soon the act will be implemented.

“I have to check on that. Why don’t you call me on that?” he said. Under the Children’s Act there is a general offence of committing cruelty to a child which is punishable by a term of six years in prison and a fine of $5,000 if convicted at the Magistrates’ Court. Upon indictment at the High Court, the punishment moves to ten years in prison and a fine of $50,000.

Mahabir-Wyatt argued the sentence in the case of the child’s hand being burnt on a tawah was not stiff enough.

“If it was a big grown-up adult who had had someone assault them in that way, that would not be the sentence,” she said. New legislation alone, though, is not the answer, Mahabir-Wyatt maintained. She noted a need for institutions like the Children’s Authority to have enhanced powers to act on behalf of children. She also issued a call to the State to consider introducing more community police to detect crimes against children, and also the introduction of nurseries for single parents who have to work to support their children.

“The Children’s Authority should be given the support services that it needs to function,” she said, yet again.

“And every community in Trinidad and Tobago should have Government-supported Servol- styled nurseries and nursery schools for children whose mothers have to work to support them.”

Perhaps until such reforms are put in place and until the State’s unfair enforcement of laws against women ceases, women shall continue to be treated like second-class citizens. They will remain like Eve: regarded by the State as merely products of Adam’s rib.

Source: http://www.newsday.co.tt/crime_and_court/0,162598.html
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