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Mission:
The Dragonfly Centre is committed to the elimination of domestic violence against women and their children by providing victim friendly services that promotes the empowerment of survivors; through advocacy, public awareness and education and community based initiatives.

Vision: The Dragonfly Centre envisions a world free of violence against women and their children and social justice for all. We are founded on the vision and belief that every person has the right to live in a safe environment free from violence and the fear of violence and strive to work collaboratively with the community to provide victim friendly services to support domestic violence victims, survivors to the stage of thriving.

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Sunday, November 27, 2011

Calling for An End to Domestic Violence

 
Five-year-olds being raped
By CECILY ASSON Saturday, November 26 2011
Data coming out of the south office of the Rape Crisis Society of Trinidad and Tobago has shown that five-year-olds were among clients who were brought in to get help from the Non-Governmental Organisation (NGO) last year.
Marcus Kissoon of the Rape Crisis Society made the disclosure yesterday at the launch of the International Day for the Elimination of Gender-Based Violence at Kampo Restaurant in Chaguanas.

Children have a right to sex education, Kissoon said, since it is the means by which they can help protect themselves against abuse, exploitation, unwanted pregnancy, Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) and other ills. According to Kissoon, out of 91 new clients seen in 2010 at the south office, 31 of them ranged in ages between five to 17.

Kissoon told the audience:

“Our organisation is designed for treatment of psychological traumas, we deal with sexual abuse, rape, and domestic violence.

“In 2010, we observed in our south office, which is located in the heart of San Fernando, that we had 91 new clients, issues ranging from gang rape to incest, to date rape to stranger rape. “In the same year, 31 of these new clients were between the ages of five and 17. Again this is the reported cases that came to us at the south office.”

Kissoon believes there are many cases that go unreported, saying “their numbers could double two or three times that.” Noting that he was a young man bringing word from the Rape Crisis Society, Kissoon said the statistics showed that one in eight men were sexually assaulted.

“... let us pay attention to the men who were sexually assaulted and are walking around with the burden of childhood traumas, those who were interfered with.

“Sex education is important because it is a process of acquiring information and forming beliefs,” he said. International Day for the Elimination of Gender Based Violence was hosted by the Young Women’s Christian Association in collaboration with the United Nations (UN) System in Trinidad and Tobago.

To mark “16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence” which began yesterday and ends on December 10, a number of events have been organised, including a youth competition titled “My Life in Words...I Claim My Rights”.

Addressing the audience, President of the YWCA of Trinidad and Tobago, Keisha Cruickshank called for an end to violence against women.

“We are calling for an end to domestic violence, sexual violence, to rape, to financial abuse, to trafficking for prostitution, to mobbing and bullying at work,” she said.

Chaguanas Mayor Orlando Nagessar and Minister in the Ministry of Gender Affairs, MP Ramona Ramdial, were among the guests at yesterday’s function.

Source: http://www.newsday.co.tt/crime_and_court/0,151256.html

Friday, November 25, 2011

Leaving is the Most Dangerous Time

‘It was licks and more licks’

Penal mom speaks about abusive son-in-law
Published: Thu, 2011-11-24 20:42
 
Ruper Persad-Nathai and her mother Krishendaye Jaikaran
Bleeding from stab and chop wounds, Ruper Persad-Nathai fought off her cutlass-wielding brother-in-law, Premchan Ramrattan, and saved her family on Monday afternoon. Ramrattan, who committed suicide, went on a deadly mission at around 4 pm at the Scotts Road, Penal, home of his mother-in-law, Krishendaye Jaikaran, 62, whom he accused of wrecking his marriage. While some mourned Ramrattan’s death, Persad-Nathai was hailed a hero yesterday by Pundit Basdeo Jaikeran. Krishendaye said her daughter Kumaria Ramrattan, 38, fled her marital home three months ago with her seven-year-old daughter, Sarika. “She had no other place to go so she came here...My son-in-law came several times and wanted her to return home,” Krishendaye said.

However, Kumaria refused to return because she was afraid of Ramrattan. She revealed that Ramrattan would often beat Kumaria after he got drunk. “It was licks and more licks...One time he put a knife to her throat and threatened to kill her,” Krishendaye said. On another occasion, he took a stick and beat her on the head. Krishendaye said Kumaria tried to make the marriage work for the sake of their children, but after the last beating, she decided to leave. The distraught wife fought for custody of her children and won the case, Krishendaye revealed. However, Ramrattan’s behaviour got worse.

“He would go where she work and curse...She had to hide in the Siparia Health Centre where she worked as a janitor,” Krishendaye added. Persad-Nathai said two years ago, Kumaria overdosed herself with sleeping pills. “She didn’t want to live anymore and she had to spend three days in the hospital,” Persad-Nathai said. On the day of the chopping, Krishendaye was resting on the couch when Ramrattan walked in with a cutlass. He chopped her across the neck and demanded to see his wife. Kumaria fled. Persad-Nathai said she got “super-strength” when she saw Ramrattan going to chop up her mother a second time.

They began fighting and it was only when another relative intervened that Ramrattan left. He went to Rochard Road, Penal, where he was found slumped behind the wheel of his car.  An autopsy conducted on his body yesterday revealed that he died from ingestion of poison. Pundit Jaikeran said the incident was unfortunate as he had regularly counselled the couple. He described Ramrattan as abusive and possessive. Supt Franklin Sampath and ASP Rajkumar headed investigations.